You can read Part I here.

Part II โ€“ The First Year

I spent the first few months contemplating what kind of job I wanted. I was keen on either not-for-profit organizations or start-ups. I channeled my energy in this direction. I got a couple of good head starts but due to some or the other reason, they did not materialize.

Still, I was riding high on the excitement of having time for myself. I read like crazy, averaging three books a month. I set up my Letโ€™s Go Sightseeing blog, FB page, Instagram account & Twitter handle. I became more regular with my blogging โ€“ both personal & travel. I contributed articles to Womenโ€™s Web. I traveled like mad โ€“ nine purely sightseeing trips in 12 months (a few others for family obligations). I did not look for a job seriously then.

Takeaway 1: Be sure of your reason to take a sabbatical. Leaving & then figuring out may leave you dissatisfied. At least have a broad agenda in mind.

Takeaway 2: Take a sabbatical if & only if you are OK not working. I am someone who values my personal life WAY more than my professional one. I am not too ambitious. I disliked my job at that point of time & was OK giving it up. If you are driven by targets & deliverables, then a sabbatical will bore you.

Also, towards the end, I was in a negative work environment. The sabbatical helped me get rid of that negativity in my system.

Takeaway 3: Take a sabbatical only if you are OK being at home. A lot of folks wonder how I spend time at home. I LOVE being at home. I get to read, write & plan my next travel. Or even binge on Netflix/ Amazon Prime. I have never had a problem of โ€˜getting bored at homeโ€™.

But I understand that is not everyoneโ€™s cup of tea. It works for me also because I am an introvert. If getting out & meeting people energizes you, then you will be unable to bear being at home.

An argument to this can be โ€“ but I will volunteer/ freelance/ some such thing. Yes, you will, but outside of a regular job, there are days when you end up being at home. Maybe because the nature of volunteering is such. Maybe finding a freelance opportunity is taking time. Whatever. But even those few days can become a nightmare if you are not a โ€˜home birdโ€™.

Takeaway 4: Be ready to answer questions. A lot of questions. Why did you take a sabbatical? Did you dislike your job? What are you planning to do now? How do you spend your entire day? Isnโ€™t your money running out? Donโ€™t you get bored?

Be prepared to hear comments. Oh, you must be having a LOT of time. It must be nice to not do anything. I would get so bored at home. Blah blah

Not just from random people; sometimes from your loved ones too.

Oh & also be ready to answer aunties. Now you can start a family. Why donโ€™t you use your break to have a baby?

Takeaway 5: I do not know if I can call it a coincidence or what. As soon as I started my sabbatical, a couple of my loved ones got into some legal trouble. I was so thankful that I could be there with them during the difficult times on a full-time basis.

For many months from November 2017, my parents & a couple of other elders went through bouts of bad health. Again, it worked in my favor that I could devote time to care-giving.

On the happier side, three of my cousins got married. I did not have to compromise in attending their wedding festivities. So, for me, the sabbatical improved my relationship with my family.

Takeaway 6: I learnt the nuances of blogging, a bit on social media management, pranayama, & swimming. The sabbatical gave me more time to explore new skills. In the process, I figured that I would not mind a social media management/ content writing kind of a job.

To be continued…


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4 responses to “The Story of My Sabbatical”

  1. […] can read Parts I & II here & here […]

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  3. It’s interesting to read about your experience! I have never considered taking a sabbatical before, but I do love being at home! x

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    1. Thank you for stopping by & reading Sophie! I’d never thought I would take a sabbatical either but as they say, ‘never say never’. :)

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